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Kim \u00f6\u011fretti size yalan s\u00f6ylemeyi hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Neden yalan s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsunuz?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bu sizin tercihiniz mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

O halde a\u00e7\u0131k konu\u015fal\u0131m. Size yalan s\u00f6ylemeyi anne, baban\u0131z \u00f6\u011fretti. Anne, babas\u0131z b\u00fcy\u00fcyenlere anne, baba yerine koyduklar\u0131 insanlar \u00f6\u011fretti. K\u0131saca, birinci derecede sizi yeti\u015ftiren insanlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u0130tiraz edece\u011finizi biliyorum, annem babam asla yapmaz bunu ya da ben \u00e7ocu\u011fuma asla yalan s\u00f6ylemem ve \u00e7ocu\u011fum da s\u00f6ylemez diyeceksiniz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hakl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bilin\u00e7li ebeveynlersiniz elbette ancak; bu yalan s\u00f6ylemedi\u011finiz ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun, sizin yalanlar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fini de\u011fi\u015ftirmiyor ne yaz\u0131k ki.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

E\u015finize s\u00f6yledi\u011finiz ve masum oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz \u201cbeyaz yalanlar\u201d nedeni ile \u00e7ocu\u011funuz yalan s\u00f6ylemeyi \u00f6\u011frenir. \u201cA\u015fk\u0131m \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131m ben yolday\u0131m\u201d derken \u00e7ocu\u011funuz yan\u0131n\u0131zda hala evde olman\u0131n \u015fa\u015fk\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile size bakar mesela.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Annanne, babanne vb ki\u015filerin s\u00f6yledi\u011fi \u201cyeme\u011fini ye sana oyuncak alaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d deyip sonra \u201caman ya \u00e7ocuk o unutmu\u015ftur\u201d demesi ya da \u201caaaaa a\u00e7 a\u011fz\u0131n\u0131 bak bak ku\u015fa bak’\u201d \u00e7ocuk ku\u015f arar ama nerdeeeeee…. .<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Peki sizin y\u00f6nlendirmeleriniz. \u201cAaa \u00e7ocu\u011fum arkada\u015f\u0131na sa\u00e7\u0131n i\u011fren\u00e7 olmu\u015f denir mi hi\u00e7 c\u0131k c\u0131k c\u0131k ne ay\u0131p\u201d  peki ne desin ? Sonra ay\u0131plar ve g\u00fcnahlar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Peki tamam s\u00f6ylemesin hatta bast\u0131rs\u0131n t\u00fcm duygular\u0131n\u0131 da\u2026 \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc siz duygular\u0131n\u0131 da s\u00f6yletmeyi ve nas\u0131l s\u00f6ylemesi gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6ylemeyi de unuttunuz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ne kadar masum g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor de\u011fil mi?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Peki sizin ve \u00e7evrenizin s\u00f6yledi\u011fi bu yalanlar ne yapar sizi ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu? Ben s\u00f6yleyeyim ‘YALANCI’<\/p>\n\n\n\n

G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ile ileti\u015fiminize bir bak\u0131n. Yalan\u0131n ne yaz\u0131k ki masumu yok.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00fctfen \u00e7ocu\u011funuz yalan s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor ise onu su\u00e7lamay\u0131n. \u201cOna bunu nas\u0131l \u00f6\u011frettim\u201d diye kendinizi sorgulay\u0131n. Yani \u00f6nce kendiniz bu durumun fark\u0131nda olun. Bunu yapan herkesin bir de\u011fi\u015fim s\u00fcreci ge\u00e7irdi\u011fine \u00e7ok kez \u015fahit oldum ben. Sonras\u0131nda ise \u00e7ok daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fki kurduklar\u0131na\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kim \u00f6\u011fretti size yalan s\u00f6ylemeyi hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc? Neden yalan s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorsunuz? Bu sizin tercihiniz mi? O halde a\u00e7\u0131k konu\u015fal\u0131m. Size yalan s\u00f6ylemeyi anne, baban\u0131z \u00f6\u011fretti. Anne, babas\u0131z b\u00fcy\u00fcyenlere anne, baba yerine koyduklar\u0131…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1017","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"\nYALANCILAR - Selma Akku\u015f<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/selmaakcakaya.com.tr\/?p=1017\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"YALANCILAR - Selma Akku\u015f\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Kim \u00f6\u011fretti size yalan s\u00f6ylemeyi hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc? 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